Online Privacy And Kids: Think Before You Post

Laying ground rules will help maintain your child’s online privacy.

The Internet and social networks can be a great tool for sharing school photos and information, but it can also grow dangerous if abused. Schools and experts alike are warning parents and children to think before you post, in order to protect your privacy.

“In today’s world, everyone is connected, and anything can get copied, pasted, and sent to thousands of people in a heartbeat—which is why it’s important for parents to help their kids learn to protect their privacy,” said Caroline Knorr, parenting editor of Common Sense Media, a think-tank on kids and media issues. “The repercussions of a spur-of-the-moment picture or post could be immediately embarrassing—or come years later, affecting college or job opportunities.”

Cupertino Union School District spokesman Jeremy Nishihara says online privacy and Internet conduct is a big deal at the schools that educate students from kindergarten through eighth grade. He says district schools use a preventative and reactive model with respect to acceptable uses of the Internet on campus. 

“K-8 is the district age, so our technology agreement covers a small slice of the district anyway," said Nishihara. "Our Student Acceptable Use of Technology contract is signed by both the parents and students and covers appropriate use versus inappropriate use of the Internet.”

Highlighted in that agreement is that the Internet is to be used for educational purposes only and that students must maintain complete confidentiality while online.

“We teach acceptable use and then mention the fact that students need confidentiality online," said Nishihara. "Like many things at school, the topic of online protection involves a partnership between the school and the parents." 

But, he insists, there are times where what happens online at home spills on to the schoolyard.

“Anecdotally, the issues are mostly Facebook or other sites that happen offsite and spill over onto campus the next day. It could be a disruption. But we are pretty good about our character educational programs in the classroom that cover online privacy and cyber-bullying,” he said. “It’s our job to make sure the students have instructional technology tools.”

Talking to your kids about privacy and the dangers lurking online might be one of the more current issues you discuss.

Here’s advice from Common Sense Media to help kids protect their privacy:

  • Explain that nothing is really private. Privacy settings aren’t infallible, so it’s up to kids to protect themselves by thinking twice before they post something that could damage their reputation or that someone else could use to embarrass or hurt them.
  • Teach kids to keep personal information private.
  • Make sure your kids use privacy settings on their social network pages. Encourage kids to really think about the nature of their relationships (close friends, family, acquaintances, strangers) and adjust their privacy settings accordingly.
  • Remind kids to protect their friends' privacy.
  • Establish a few hard-and-fast rules about posting. No nude or semi-nude photos or videos—ever—not online, not on their phones. No pictures of doing drugs, drinking or having sex.
  • Help kids think long term. Everything leaves a digital footprint. Whatever gets created may never go away. If they don’t want to see it tomorrow, they'd better not post it today.
Kat Flesh September 27, 2011 at 08:27 PM
Really great advice!
MrPrivacy September 28, 2011 at 01:07 AM
I created threadthat.com to protect our online privacy. Everything shared is encrypted in-transit and at-rest. Nothing shared via ThreadThat will ever be searchable via Google. This is a ad-free, cost-free service.
Ken Shallcross September 30, 2011 at 05:01 PM
Correct me if I am wrong, but the right to freedom of speech we have been given by the Constitution was intended by our forefathers to guarantee the right to assemble and petition the government without fear of being silenced or punished. This "freedom of speech" was never intended to include the act of insulting, threatening and harassing others – whether online or in any public forum. Unfortunately, right now, many are cowering behind that right to destroy the lives of others. The Cyberbullying loophole needs to be closed. Cyberbullying is slander/ libel and should be considered as such in a court of law. The problem is that the Internet is a safe haven for bullies because of the anonymity. There is not a more cowardly way to bully someone then from behind a curtain. Parents are the key to solving this. They need to get involved and be part of the solution – not part of the problem. If parents feared their child being the bully or passing along the material as much as they care when their child is a victim, it would be a huge step forward. But how do you know if your child is involved in cyberbullying? You need to monitor their Internet activity. Monitoring software like our PC Pandora records everything that happens on the PC. If your child is a victim, you will know; if they are a bully, you will know. Check us out at http://pcpandora.com to see how you can be an active part of the solution instead of a passive part of the problem.


More »
Got a question? Something on your mind? Talk to your community, directly.
Note Article
Just a short thought to get the word out quickly about anything in your neighborhood.
Share something with your neighbors.What's on your mind?What's on your mind?Make an announcement, speak your mind, or sell somethingPost something
See more »